In the realm of sexual assault, stealthing stands as a deeply troubling violation, often cloaked in silence and misunderstanding. Stealthing, the act of non-consensually removing a condom during sex, strips individuals of their autonomy and exposes them to physical and emotional risks.

What is stealthing?

Stealthing is a form of sexual assault where one partner removes a condom during intercourse without the consent of the other. This deceptive act breaches trust and disregards the explicit or implied agreement between partners. The repercussions of stealthing are significant, encompassing unwanted pregnancies, sexually transmitted infections (STIs), and profound emotional trauma.

The impact on survivors

Survivors of stealthing often grapple with a whirlwind of emotions, from confusion and anger to guilt and fear. The violation can leave them feeling powerless, their trust shattered. The psychological toll is immense, as survivors may struggle with anxiety, depression, and a diminished sense of self-worth. The physical risks, including potential exposure to STIs and the possibility of unintended pregnancy, further compound the trauma.

Legal landscape

The legal recognition of stealthing varies across jurisdictions. Some places have begun to acknowledge stealthing as a criminal offence, prosecuting it under sexual assault or rape laws. However, the lack of uniform legislation leaves many survivors in a precarious position, uncertain about their rights and the potential for legal recourse. Advocacy groups are tirelessly working to bring attention to this issue, pushing for clearer laws and better support systems for survivors.

Steps to take after experiencing stealthing

Ensure immediate safety: Prioritise your physical and emotional safety. Reach out to a trusted friend, family member, or a support hotline. Consider reporting the crime to the police, if you feel ready to.

Seek medical attention: Consider getting tested for STIs and discussing emergency contraception options with a healthcare professional.

Document the incident: Outcry Witness allows you to record the details of the assault. This documentation can be invaluable if you decide to report the crime later.

Reach out for support: Connect with counselling services or support groups specialising in sexual assault. Speaking with others who understand can provide comfort and guidance.

Explore legal options: Consult with a legal expert to understand your rights and the potential avenues for justice in your jurisdiction.

Outcry Witness offers a vital platform for survivors of stealthing to document their experiences. By providing a safe and confidential space, we allow individuals to record the details of their assault, preserving evidence that can be crucial if they decide to pursue legal action in the future. The act of documenting the experience is, in itself, a step toward reclaiming agency and finding a sense of empowerment.

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